turbo leaking oil...Maybe

It could be the pipe that goes from the cam cover to the intake (oil breather), I got a catch can set up but it stil gets oil in the intake pipes.

Normal, just the turbo sucking in crap from the crankcase

well thats good then but wouldn't that clog up the intercooler

any recommendations on what is good

/\ not a good idea, some cars idle like poo poo if you do that plus can get defected
get any catch can that is internally baffled not just hollow inside
if it is hollow then use some steel wool in it (steel wool will soon get covered in oil and shouldnt rust)
make sure you get the right hose sizes for them if the inlet and outlet hoses size are small the car will blow smoke/idle funny
cheers