Don't blame you for going 2GR. I strongly disagree about the 3S being a POS though. They typically come with little history (in Japan) & were poorly maintained due to the lack of local knowledge (or lazyness overseas). Troubleshooting is typically a biach. Additionally, they're old now too. Gen2 is also known for having a weaker HG.
In retrospect, most of the 3SGTE failures fall under the below:
Headgasket (age, weakness Gen2)
Poor modification (spun bearing, BHG)
Piston rings (age, poor tuning etc)
Cracked block (for the more hardcore)
Honestly, the single biggest problem owners come across is entrusting MR2's to big rep mechanics who charge a premium without results. Compare that to the other issues/motors out there:
13B - rats nest vaccuum lines, complete inability to take detonation, even more sub-standard workmanship
SR20 - block (requires nice sleeves), head oiling issues (same with hydraulics) & bunch of other problems known to occur over 300rwkw
4G63 - Crank walk, noisy cylinder heads, connected driveline weakness
B18C/B16A/K20A - no torque + coke can for a block
For the record, 5SFE Camry's etc are known to suffer headgasket issues above 200,000km too.