your crazyyy if you fit a metal HG and dont machine the head, its asking for trouble as they dont flex or compress as much as the normal ones do so even a tiny bit of warp and it will leak again. get it done right the first time so you dont have to redo it again..
as for metal gaskets you can buy Cometic ones from ebay or from autobarn from memory or gorrila can get you one as justace has suggested
if the head is being shaved/machined then add that thickness to the MHG to even it out and keep the compression the same. (im pretty sure the MHGs comes in a few different thicknesses)