Are you 100% sure that you already have  the later crossmember in there?
 

Dasic - 99% sure.  I did the swap myself and put all the gen 3 stuff from the 94 GTS halfcut in.  
 
There is a very very small chance/unlikely scenario that the halfcut come over from Japan with an early model crossmember, but mine had less than 60,000 kays (allegedly) on it.  Since I've had no dramas with it for the last three years, and she runs very smooth, I'd say the kays were pretty spot on.
 
Ok, so I've taken pictures of the spare crossmember and the one in my car currently.  Will upload them now

So this is my spare...looks to me like a gen 2 from the pictures Reddtarga put up.  Also, inspected it closely and the control arm holes have already been elongated with the thread taps loose.  So won't be using it.

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Aaand this in the one in the car - sorry about the bad pictures.

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So, James - any luck with finding your Gen 3 one?
 
 
 
 
 

Yep, I've got one, structurally looks good, cosmetically not so good.  Paint is scratched off the bottom of the mounds on the bottom and started to rush a little.  Could use going over with a wire brush and some paint.  PM me your phone number and I will MMS some pictures.

Sweet!
Ha - I don't care about the looks of it, I'll sandblast it and paint it.  The thread taps still good?
 
PM'ed you.