The p/n is 35A-AAA-DDEA-1BA, and it's available on eBay:
http://www.ebay.com.au/it...Solenoid-/250818327731 I saw those Delco solenoids on Amazon, they are amazingly cheap. I don't know any details, but I believe there are agencies that will accept deliveries from Amazon and redirect them O/S (for a fee of course).
I used a connector set from Autobarn which is similar to the ones used in the EFI systems on Holdens (waterproof, etc):
I don't know why 20Hz was chosen but I guess it's a compromise between stability of the wastegate actuator (higher frequency is better) and precision of the solenoid's mechanical cycling capability (lower is better).
You could ditch the AFM on install, but it's probably a better idea to leave it in place for a while and let the ME2 run in auto-learn mode. Also, T-VIS will cause you tuning headaches for reasons I've covered before, basically MAP based load sensing doesn't work well with variable VE engines. If you're going with MAF elimination it'll be a lot easier to also disable T-VIS. I don't yet have any useful data but I'm not convinced the AFM is as bad as its rep! I won't ditch it until I'm sure it's restricting further improvement.