Steering geometry that causes bump steer isn't going to make an appreciable difference to the loads and subsequent wear rates of the steering components. Bump steer is caused by steering angle changes throughout suspension travel, and the steering movement produced is only a small fraction of the suspension travel.
At any time a car is on the ground there are loads on the steering components, adding the dynamics of motion changes these loads in one way or another. The single biggest factor that will increase steering component loads when hitting bumps is the distance between the steering axis at road level and the edge of the tyre, and this is related to the scrub radius which is the distance from the same point to the tyre centre line. This distance is essentially the lever that produces steering forces when a bump is hit. Factors that change it significantly are wider tyres and increased negative wheel offsets. Small changes here can profoundly affect the transmission of bump forces into the steering. Larger diameter tyres, due to steering axis inclination, tend to bring scrub radius back towards better values when offset has been negatively increased. Large scrub radii also cause instability under brakes on uneven surfaces.
Another significant factor that loads steering components is increased caster angles. High caster angles are useful to increase camber change on steering input and maintain flatter tyre contact on cornering, particularly with strut type suspensions where other camber change methods are not available. You can quickly see the effect of caster loads by unbolting the tie rod ends and dropping the car - it immediately goes pigeon toed!
Finally, load on the rack bushes increases when the ride height is not ideal. Ideal means that all four tie rod ends should be in a straight line with the car at rest, ie. tie rods horizontal. When lowered, the outer tie rod ends are higher than the inners causing steering forces to place vertical loads on the rack, and this decreases the bush life.
Take Kameleon's advice and service everything in the car's suspension and steering systems, this is always the best starting point when troubleshooting sloppy handling and dynamics issues. Then pay a bit of attention to your wheel offsets and sizing, keeping in mind they work intrinsically with the suspension geometry in determining the car's behaviour. If you need corrections, make them thoughtfully and try not to just guess. Ultimately if you make the car a fun place to spend time it'll be immensely satisfying knowing that you made it that way. At least that's how it works for me!