So with a few guys pitching in with comments and the recommendation of a Rotrex guru
So i went with this this solenoid to run my Turbosmart wastegate

It also includes a sintered vent/muffler if i chose not to run that line to the air box
Leads are 18" long.
12 volt DC , polarity not sensitive.
5.4 watts
10-90% duty cycle
1/8" npt ports
compatible with many & most boost controllers and ECU's : AEM,Autronic,E-boost etc,Neptune, Hondata,ECtune,Megasquirt,VEMS.
(4 ) 3/16" bhose barbs nipples
(1) sintered vent/muffler
This is an industrial quality valve, Autronic,e-boost and AEM have been using them for years on everything from rally cars to drag cars, there is a reason they use this valve, it is very durable and responsive.
This valve can be driven by many stock ecu's as well as many aftermarket stand-alones and regular stand alone boost controllers.