As far as wiring in to your car goes for the Haltech, can't you get a patch loom? Basically a loom that plugs into the factory harness then the other side plugs into the ECU? Places like Wolf used to offer these a while back but I also thought Haltech do too.
I think Haltech have calibration tables for sensors also so you don't need to change any of the factory sensors.
Depends on what features your really after from an ECU, do you need anitlag and stuff or just after fuel and ignition maps. If its just fuel and ignition then wouldn't something like a Power FC be cheap and good enough?