2012/05/02 21:06:56
purple5ive
btw, good luck with your turbo and V6 projects, post some pics up when you have them, i promise im not going to ruin your showroom thread like you did to mine.
cheers Dude
2012/05/02 21:34:14
Dudeman
Hmm, no too sure if and when I ruined your showroom thread, sorry if I took it off topic.
 
Now here is an unedited exchange between me and purplejive...
 
Date Sent Sunday, 22 April 2012 10:00 AM From purple5ive  To Dudeman
Dudeman


purple5ive



I need payment to be made first before I start packaging everything up. 

Cheers 


You are joking, right? 
Do you think if after seeing the pics and agreeing to buy it i'll back out once its packed?? Its not quite like I'm a brand new member who no-one has bought from or sold to. 


Stranger things have happened. No I'm not joking, its the same for you as for everyone else if you want the stuff you pay first and after it clears the part will be sent, its how ive always done it, and your the first one to come up with such a reply. if your interested let me know and ill send you my banking details or the extra pics for you to see and then make up your mind otherwise stop wasting my time as I'm very, very busy. 

Cheers
quote:
Originally posted by dasic1 

Na wont be there. Going to a fight 


 
I guess it was just the last bit "Make up your mind otherwise stop wasting my time as I'm very, very busy" got my goat.
 
I too have bought and sold here, 99.99% send pics, get their 'thumbs up' and pack the item. Payment sent, payment clears, item get sent.
Some trusting types send the item and wait for payment - unless i have met them personally its not the way i'd normally go.
 
So I understood you were pretty busy, waited a week or so for pics, didn't get any, didn't stress too much. Did mention my car was in for respray that week (I think i did anyway) Then got told to pay before you pack etc.. Maybe I was just being pms but didn't like it. 
 
The reasons for and regret have been explained so i won't rehash them.
 
As for the other criticisms, well I think as a new moderator in the first week I made one or two gringo errors, like making a final comment on a closed post, another new mod did that as well but the expectations were explained and they were followed. 
 
Not sure of that your issue was,
"
the last straw out of many problems you have created here, and you got what you deserved".

 
Big call, I did make that poor judgement and 'thumbed you down' and that was just plain old childish. Thats the only stuff up I made. The owner here likes to run a tight ship in regard to his mods so its his call so i was demoted. I didn't like it but had to wear it. Anyone can fiddle with those damn thumbs, just not up to standard for a moderator to be doing it.
 
Anyway thanks for you other blokes making comments, I did try to make the place seamless and Admin knows its not just all hot air when I say i was on the ball here behind the scenes and kept myself relatively busy. (Yes that was me posting the Flight of the Conchords link--- 'Too much time on too many hands' sort of seems fitting right now...)
 
It would take a real Lazarus moment for me to be re-elected as a moderator I think. The older crew here remember quite well the online slanging matches I had here - which generally came down to someone being picked on too much as i saw it, so i stuck my big mouth in and got involved.
 
I'd like to think the majority of the members who have joined in the last two years or so aren't jaded by those days.
 
So Steve, there's no need to get so upset, i'm not anymore 
Glad you are looking forward to my car(s) appearing here finally, i'll make sure they are up when they are presentable.
 
DM.
2012/05/02 21:56:31
MANDALAY
Well i like this forum and prefer it to be the one that stands.
 
At least i dont get bullied by the gang...................
 
And thanks to Dudeman for pointing out to me that this forum was still running as i thought it was defunct when the other one started
2012/05/02 22:30:07
purple5ive
I guess it was just the last bit "Make up your mind otherwise stop wasting my time as I'm very, very busy" got my goat.

 
im sorry that you got offended by that, i am quiet busy literally even working weekends and on anzac day. i would not have said that if i had the time to spare.
 
So I understood you were pretty busy, waited a week or so for pics, didn't get any, didn't stress too much. Did mention my car was in for respray that week (I think i did anyway) Then got told to pay before you pack etc.. Maybe I was just being pms but didn't like it. 

where does it state on any PMs you sent me that you are waiting for pics from me .you didnt wait for any pics at all, the above PM was sent on 22nd of april, which i didnt not get a reply to,  the very next day on the 23rd of april you posted up a wanted post for a gen 3 lip.
http://www.mr2australia.com/mr2play/tm.aspx?m=70773
how is that waiting a week for pics and not getting any???
 
you didnt ask me for any more pics,.. period, if you did i would have sent them to you for sure.
yes - you did mention your car is in for a respray and i rememebr replying to it saying if its getting sprayed then you dont have to bother about the scratches cause it will get fixed when its being sprayed...
 
As for the other criticisms, well I think as a new moderator in the first week I made one or two gringo errors, like making a final comment on a closed post, another new mod did that as well but the expectations were explained and they were followed. 

 
the issue is if you did it before , then did it to me again, whats the proof your not going to do it again????
 
Anyone can fiddle with those damn thumbs, just not up to standard for a moderator to be doing it. 

yes anyone can fiddle with them, but only a moderator can view who has fiddled with it, so yeah you knew that and took advantage of it , knowing very well that i being just a normal member will not be bale to trace who actually gave me the thumbs down 9thats provided i can find the post, an you made sure that i wouldnt find it that easily either) , i really dont care about it, but its the principle behind doing it and the way it was done was what really pissed me off and made me pursue it.
 
It would take a real Lazarus moment for me to be re-elected as a moderator I think. The older crew here remember quite well the online slanging matches I had here - which generally came down to someone being picked on too much as i saw it, so i stuck my big mouth in and got involved

 
yeah i am one of those older members and i do remember very well what happened, but if your going to do **** like this then how can we all trust you???
it takes a lot to build trust but very little to break it down.
i think you have had your chance and blown it, its only fair for someone else to be given a chance ... but its not up to me to decide that...
 
So Steve, there's no need to get so upset, i'm not anymore 
Glad you are looking forward to my car(s) appearing here finally, i'll make sure they are up when they are presentable.

good, lets call it a day shall we.
im not upset just pissed off that your making me sound like a lying, rude prick, when i tried my best not to publically name you when i found out what was happening.
 
cheers
 
2012/05/02 22:55:02
Dudeman
^^ I give that a 'thumbs down'
 
Never alluded to you being a liar, just rude.
 
Sorry this started at all. You are very cranky, i'm no longer a moderator. 
 
Its just so uncool, its totally thumbs down.
 
2012/05/02 22:57:36
Admin
Time to lock this thread now guys. You've had your chance to state your positions.
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