Hi Shaz,
As a sister female owner of an SW20 (1994), and having just been through a similar experience myself, I understand your frustration with all the technical jargon.
Don't give up, you will want the best for your baby, now that you have it!
Putting it simply, use the correct width and profile percentage tyres recommended for the 15" wheels that are original on the MR2 tire and wheel calculator. Your offsets for your current rims must be OK, as long as you are not getting any scrubbing on suspension or fenders.
If you are running the same wheel width all round, stagger your tyre widths that suits your wheel width.......I have always gone to Bob Jane Tmarts and found their advice always sound - they will know what tyres they can fit to your width rims to stagger them.
I was running 7.5" width rims for 10 years and had staggered tyre widths so it is possible until you are ready to stagger the rims.
Of most importance to the SW20 is the load rating for the rear tyres......you should be fine with 15" rims, however if you choose to get new rims, best stay with 15" or go straight to 17" as you can no longer get the correct load rated tyres for 16" rims - believe me I have tried in order to get across WA rego pits - had to get emergency 17" rims to get the correct tyre load rating!! Expensive lesson!
The car's centre of gravity and natural characteristics to stay glued to the road depend on the correct tyres (and to some extent, the rims) that are specified to the car.........if you want it to look after you, you need to give it the correct tools.
Cheers, M