I've had 4 weeks away from my garage and car so minimal progress made. Fortunately I had a chance to drive this thing. Really makes you appreciate how crappy toyotas are

jks.

No new parts whilst I pay off the holiday debt, but I can still tinker in the mean time.
I did the old skate bearing to shifter cable linkage trick.

The shifter feels slightly tighter but unfortunately didn't fix my issue. The gearbox is still very stiff and doesn't like engaging gears. It's worse whilst driving but still stiff and notchy when not running, so I'm leaning towards a mechanical issue rather than hydraulic. Although it could also be a combo of clutch not fulling disengaging and bent selector fork? Bit beyond my mechanical knowledge so probably heading back to the workshop...