GTX2867 or 3071 IMO. On a 3S, I've had CT26 (165) CT20B, K1, GT3037 (now 3076), GT3582R. Have a GTX3582 on FD too which has been flawless & competed in Time Attack.
The GTX2867 would sit between my K1 (on 2L) & my GT3037 experience (2.1L), which would be the sweet spot for a nicely powered, still responsive & low/midrange punchy turbo.
I had to really push my K1 & motor kinda hard to reach 235rwkw, which although it was very fun, a GTX2867 should be able to do a bit easier without too much sacrifice.
Agree, 3SGTE can be hard to squeeze power from compared to say SR20 or 4G63, but I personally blame unfamiliar tuners, factory intake manifolds (restrictive uneven flow) & widely used, insufficient side mount intercoolers.